Detroit Area Wedding Guide
The Wedding Proposal
The Wedding Proposal
A wedding proposal is a very personal affair. It can be an intimate occasion between two people who love one another or it can be an extremely public display for the whole country to witness. Gone are the days of staunch etiquette where debonair gentlemen crouched down on one knee and offered the diamond ring to his beloved and asked in anxious anticipation whether she would marry him.
Today the choice on how to propose is as diverse as the universe itself. The way in which a proposal is handled is entrenched in the personality of the prospective groom. He may be shy and reserved, thus, keeping the proposal to himself and his girl. He may be flamboyant and outlandish cooking up some plot for the masses to see. But, whatever method the man chooses, the fact remains that a heavenly union of man and woman is about to take place.
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Indeed, there are times of the year that are more popular for wedding proposals. For instance, a pretty, little blue box under the Christmas tree usually signifies something nice. Valentines Day is perfect for proposals because the day is all about love, sweethearts and cupid. Another popular day is the girl's birthday and to make it real special, she may receive her diamond engagement ring. Of course the anniversary of the courtship or being together is a wonderful time to acknowledge a couple's commitment to one another.
The wedding proposal may be a surprise to the woman or the couple may have discussed the possibility of marriage and she is expecting the proposal. A ring that the man has chosen might be given at the time of the proposal or they may wait until later when both can choose the ring together. Again because there is no longer a dictated etiquette, the couple does what suits them best.
A romantic candlelit dinner at home can be an exciting ambience in which to make the proposal. A favorite meal, dim lights and a fine bottle of wine or sparkling water sets the mood nicely. The meal may be cooked together as a couple or the man may add to the surprise by ordering dishes from a favorite restaurant or caterer and serving the meal on fancy china and linens. Maybe let the woman know in advance that you plan a special dinner so she can wear her fancy clothes and do her hair and makeup accordingly. She will most certainly look forward to this evening.
Your favorite restaurant is another nice idea for making the proposal. Being together in a favorite or significant spot adds to the importance of the proposal. Or you may decide that the proposal is a good reason to splurge and visit that fancy restaurant you have longed to try. Either choice of eating establishment can be exciting. Be sure to make reservations and also let the restaurant know that this is a special dinner. They might help you making the event more romantic and memorable. They may also help by hiding the ring for you in a special place to make it a real surprise when the woman finds it.
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Going away for the weekend is another special way to make a wedding proposal. Before you and your intended go to bed, place a pretty laced box on her pillow and watch the delight on her face as she finds the box and opens it.
Others may choose to propose at a family dinner or gathering. With everyone seated around the dining table, the man may surprise his beloved by asking her in front of those whom they love and hold dear.
Proposals come in all budgets, sizes, shapes and venues. Some of the more public and elaborate examples are:
writing the proposal from the colored smoke on the back of an airplane,
asking the intended on national TV at a professional sports game,
adding a banner tail floating in the air behind a blimp,
attaching a banner on a helium balloon,
renting space on a billboard where the woman is bound to see it,
writing your question in chalk on the sidewalk outside her home,
sing-o-gram or mascot sent to work or home,
and even applying to participate in a reality TV program.
Lastly, let's not forget that in this modern day and age, the man may not even be the one making the proposal. The woman may take matters into her own hands and decide that she wants to make the first move. Whatever the method, wherever the location, the proposal will be a special event for a couple. Have fun, do what is right for you and enjoy the moment.
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